I was part of a discussion about prayer recently. One element of the discussion was the extent to which our prayers are directed at our character rather than our circumstances.
Whilst this is not simply an either/or issue, I want to suggest the proper emphasis is on character. My conclusion on reading scripture is that God’s primary objective is our character. He uses circumstances to hone our character.
Paul’s apostolic priority is stated in Gal 4.19. He writes “my little children, for whom I am again in the anguish of childbirth until Christ is formed in you!” Here are the words of a ‘spiritual midwife’ longing for perfection for those in his care. Similarly, in Rom 8.29; “For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son.” Paul describes Christ as the prototype (literal word for first-born), of whom we are to be duplicates.
Those two verses alone seem to set the agenda for numerous other scriptures.
Paul writes to the Philippians; “Do all things without grumbling or questioning, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world” Phil 2.14-15). The best response to being ‘strangers’ in this world is to demonstrate the likeness of Jesus Christ, bringing light into dark places. In writing to the Church in Colosse; “Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience (Col 3.12),” adding forbearance and love and peace into the mix in the next verses. If we claim to be God’s people, God’s representatives, our obligation is express that in godly characteristics.
The apostle Peter adds similar instructions; “be self-controlled and sober-minded for the sake of your prayers. Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. Show hospitality to one another without grumbling (1 Pet 4.7-9).” James speaks of spiritual wisdom thus: “the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere (James 3.17).”
Lest we think this is only a New Testament emphasis, David asks “who shall dwell on your holy hill?” and answers: “He who walks blamelessly and does what is right and speaks truth in his heart; who does not slander with his tongue and does no evil to his neighbour, nor takes up a reproach against his friend; (Psalm 15.2-3).
In responding to a different question, the Psalmist insists that God does not delight in “sacrifice and offering:” “Behold, I have come; in the scroll of the book it is written of me: I delight to do your will, O my God; your law is within my heart (Psalm 40.7-8).”
As we embrace God’s priority for our lives, let us pray with confidence that He will surely fulfil all He has promised in and for us.