Part of the book of Proverbs are a gathered collection of sayings. It is probably the only part of the Bible that might be described as ‘quirky’! Chapters 10 onward contain profound wisdom, pithy sayings, humour; great wisdom to enable us to life skilfully.
One of the themes that occurs throughout is that of our speech. So, some examples, with my comments;
“Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue” (Prov 17.28). It is said that Abraham Lincoln re-phrased this as: ‘Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doubt.’ The meaning is obvious. And we frequently find we regret something he have said, and wish we had remained silent.
The writer develops the idea further; “He who answers before listening – that is his folly and his shame” (Prov 18.13). Modern life, with its rolling news and social media, encourages us to form immediate opinions, and express those opinions immediately. We have seen that misunderstandings easily follow; controversy is kindled. Language seems to have become much more violent as a result, leading to more physical violence.
We can contrast; “the heart of the discerning acquires knowledge; the ears of the wise seek it out” (Prov 18.15). This verse paints a picture of someone weighing up facts, balancing opposing opinions, seeking wisdom. A response from such a person will be well-considered, gracious, edifying.
No wonder, the writer as says; “when words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise” (Prov 10.19). So, do not be hasty to speak. Even then, “let your words be few” (Eccl 5.2). Proverbs contains numerous encouragements to restraint, to guard our lips (Prov 13.4), to use words with restraint (Prov 17.27), to weigh our answers (Prov 15.28). Such a thoughtful approach give sus opportunity for silence, for a measured and careful response.
Indeed, Proverbs also contains numerous encouragements to listen and learn. The early chapters are addressed as words from a father to his son; and it is a wise son who heeds his father’s instruction (Prov 13.1). Listening to such instruction means the son is also counted as a wise man (Prov 15.31; 19.20).
I could write much more. But that would defeat my point!